Looking for Viagra for Women?
These days men have the easiest time reviving their sex drives. One tiny blue pill (or one of its imitators) and just about any man is ready for action. But where’s the Viagra for women? Or even another remedy that might work the same for you as it does for many guys you know…
Unfortunately, a woman’s libido is a bit more complicated. Why? Because a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man is driven by so many more factors than simple biology.
Women are complicated creatures (but you knew that!)
You might be experiencing a (totally normal) drop in your sex drive for a number of reasons, only a few of which have to do with the natural chemistry in your body.
1. Your life stage is shifting.
What little energy you had left over after raising kids, your grandkids are now consuming. Who has extra excitement left over for snuggling with your Romeo?
2. Your body is changing.
When you were young it was easier to feel sexy. You hardly had to work at it at all! But these days, all the lines seem to be softening, and it requires SO much more effort to keep in shape.
3. You’ve known him so long…
What was once naturally exciting and unknown has now become more familiar and expected. Yes, he’s still your honey bun, but these days the thought of a honey bun just makes you hungry. 🙂 Maybe you’re even growing a little bored with the predictable routine.
So what’s a wonderful woman like you to do? While you might not be able to get a quick prescription like he can, you have options for some “female Viagra” of your own!
Claim Some Time and Treasures for Yourself
Guess what? As much as you love those adorable little rug rats in your life, this season of life is also one where you get to set aside time to indulge in the wonderful things that serve (only) you! There’s absolutely no shame in taking time to read a racy romance novel, or enjoy a sensual massage. And maybe now’s the time to invest in a gym membership to get back in shape again – a sexy new pair of curve-hugging jeans might be just the ticket to make you feel smashingly beautiful again.
What’s the single biggest libido-booster out there for women? A little self-indulgence, that’s what. You’ve spent so much of your life caring for others. When’s the last time you did something totally wonderful just for you?
Claim Your Sexy Space
Of course, all sex doesn’t have to happen in your bedroom, but does your bedroom whisper sweet nothings in your ear and seduce you into slipping away with your man for a spicy little interlude? Then it may be time to clear out the clutter, move the television (and computers) out, and upgrade your love nest. Consider some mood lighting rather than that harsh overhead light, invest in luxury sheets, and put a ban on anything work-related – no stacks of bills or paperwork waiting to be handled in your bedroom! Make it a sensual retreat space instead.
Claim Your Relationship
Once you’re making time for yourself again, you can also begin to revive some romance and claim your relationship as well. Set up a regular date night, and put a little tender loving planning into a few sexy dinners IN, as well. And there’s nothing like inviting him to pick which pair of line-up-the-back thigh highs he’d like for you to wear tonight. Make a list of some sexy moves and ideas and tuck that list away in your journal, then try something fun each week. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
• Write him a sexy love note.
• Plan a steamy little bubble bath for two.
• Try an “adventure” date: paragliding, zip lining, whitewater rafting, etc.
• Invite him to pick out a new sex toy for you.
• Ask him to read a naughty passage from an erotic novel out loud to you.
• Whisper some of your favorite fantasies to him – over dinner in public.
• Re-enact some of your most memorable dates together.
• Enjoy a couples massage together.
• Book a romantic getaway at a bed & breakfast.
A Libido Boost Is Easier Than You Might Think!
The most important thing is to not just think about reviving your love life, but to actually DO it. Even the simplest start can get your batteries charged and sparking once again!
Photo credit: Lynda Sanchez
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Greta Blackburn is an actress, fitness magazine editor and Founder/Director of Greta Blackburn’s FITCAMPS, which have taken place for over 20 years in locations ranging from Malibu, Maui, and Mexico to Las Vegas and served as training symposiums for fitness professionals and other interested men and women from all over the world. Today the focus at Fitcamp is making 100 the new 50. In 2011 Greta co-authored, “The Immortality Edge” with Michael Fossel, MD, PhD. (author of the pivotal 1997 tome “Reversing Human Aging”) and Dr. Woynarowski with research and solutions based programs based on the emerging field of Telomere Biology.
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